January 23, 2010
@ 00:48
fate is a gift.
some people blame fate for the fact that they have to wake up everyday.some people blame fate for the bus they miss every morning.some people blame fate for not topping the class that year.and some people blame fate for the ones they love but could not be with.
fate,is not a choice.we cannot choose the fate we want,simply because life is twisted.if you're bound to die on your 19th birthday,you will die.and if you're asking "what if you don't die on your 19th?" maybe you might on the very next day because the person who was supposed to set your house on fire overslept.
but you can prepare for what is to come.like what we've all heard before,"live your life to the fullest!",it is the most summarised version.though you can't exactly predict what is to come,you could at least be prepared for at least 90/100 things that is about to happen.even if it means the remaining 10/100 things was only mentally prepared.
mistakes are really part and parcel of life.when you learn to walk,you're bound to fall.and when you fall in love,you're bound to feel hurt because both you and your partner are not perfect.human is bound to err and because you two are different,no matter how similar,the difference caused by the uniqueness is bound to bring in some friction and arguements.it's just the matter of how out-of-hand things could get.
so before any of these sad things happen to you,start being mentally prepared.it's the fastest,most convenient and recommended way of living.just don't treat it as a form of surrendering.you still have to struggle!!
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